Ekatva · Questions

Questions people ask

before they decide to come

Most of us go through life feeling separate — from other people, from nature, sometimes even from ourselves. Ekatva is a space to gently question that feeling, and to have a few real, lived moments where it loosens.

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What this actually is

Four short pieces of the idea, in plain language — no jargon, and no need to believe anything in advance. If you read only this section, you will already know whether the day are for you.

One

The feeling we all start with

Think about an ordinary day. You feel like “you,” separate from the people around you, sometimes in competition with them. You feel separate from nature too — as if the trees, the ocean and the sky are simply the backdrop to your life, rather than something you are part of.

This feeling is so constant that we rarely question it. It feels less like a belief and more like plain fact. And for most practical purposes it works well enough — it is how we get through a day, do our jobs, keep ourselves safe.

Two

An old idea called “not two”

One of India's oldest philosophical traditions is called Advaita, a word that simply means “not two.” Its central idea: underneath all the apparent differences between people, things and events, there is one shared awareness — and everything we experience is that one awareness showing up in countless different forms.

In this view, the separateness we feel every day is a bit like a wave feeling separate from the ocean. The wave is real, and its shape and movement are real — but it is not actually a separate thing from the water it is made of. It only looks and feels separate.

Three

Why you can't just think your way there

You cannot fully understand this idea by reading about it, the way you might understand a business concept or a scientific theory. It is a bit like explaining the taste of a mango to someone who has never eaten one: you can describe it — sweet, fragrant, a little tangy — but no description ever really gets there. At some point, the person has to taste it for themselves.

That is why this programme is built around giving you a few genuine chances to feel it, not just hear about it.

Four

Four everyday doorways

You may already have felt glimpses of this without naming it. Most people find these feelings come through a small number of doorways: Love, when the usual line between you and another softens; Making, when you lose yourself in something you care about; Stillness, when the busy chatter of “me, me, me” quietens on its own; and Wonder, when something vast makes you feel small and, strangely, more connected.

These four — Love, Making, Stillness, Wonder — are the themes that structure the programme.

A shared, lived experience of connectedness — through honest conversation, art, stillness and simple human presence — is one of the most reliable remedies we know of. That is what this programme is trying to offer, in a small and concentrated way.

The questions

Asked and answered

Grouped by what people want to know first: the idea, the day itself, then the practicalities. Nothing here is designed to persuade you — where something is still undecided, it says so.

This is a working draft, written to invite people in — details are still being finalised, and answers marked to be confirmed will be filled in as dates and venues are fixed.

01 · The idea

Is this for me, and is it religious?

The three doubts people raise most often, answered without hedging.

Is this a religious event?

No. Ekatva draws on a very old Indian philosophical tradition, and on contemplative practices from several traditions, but no faith is required and nothing is asked of anyone's beliefs. Nobody will be asked to pray, convert, or accept a doctrine.

The programme deliberately puts a scripture scholar, a neuroscientist and a physicist/philosopher of mind on the same stage — partly so that no single tradition gets the final word.

Do I need any background in philosophy, science or meditation?

None at all. No background in philosophy, science or meditation is required. The only real requirement is curiosity, and a willingness to sit with a few open questions rather than needing them resolved right away.

Everything is explained in plain language. Sessions are described in ordinary words — “what ‘not two’ really means,” “listening to the body” — rather than in academic or Sanskrit-heavy terms, and any Sanskrit or Hindi word used is explained when it comes up.

I'm sceptical. Is this going to ask me to believe something?

No — and scepticism is genuinely welcome. The programme is built to hold the questions open rather than to close them, and one of its panels exists specifically to mark where popular claims go further than the evidence allows.

For instance, some popular writing draws a direct equivalence between quantum physics and non-dual metaphysics. Serious physicists and philosophers of mind are divided on how much weight that analogy can bear, and at least one recent attempt to formalise “universal consciousness” as a physical field has already been retracted from the literature. That question is hosted as a live, contested one rather than as settled science.

Does “oneness” mean the world isn't real?

No. The claim is not that the world is an illusion. It is narrower than that: what is questioned is the world's claim to independent, separate existence — not its existence.

The usual image is the wave and the ocean. The wave is real; its shape and movement are real. It simply is not a separate thing from the water it is made of.

Isn't “we are all one” just a nice-sounding cliché?

It can be, and the programme treats that risk seriously. The difference is between saying it and noticing it: an afternoon of argument about connectedness changes very little on its own.

That is why every idea in the programme is followed by an experience of it, why silence is programmed into the agenda by name rather than left over as a gap, and why the day end in small circles rather than on a stage.

Why can't I just read a book or watch a video about this?

You can, and it will help you understand the idea. It will not give you the taste of the mango.

The reason is mechanical as much as spiritual: our minds are wired to notice differences and draw boundaries — that is how we function day to day. So the sense of oneness has to be felt directly, even briefly, rather than only explained. This programme is built around giving you a few genuine chances to feel it.

02 · The day itself

What actually happens, hour to hour

What you will be doing, how much of it involves talking, and what you can opt out of.

What happens on the day?

The morning is understanding. Honest, plain-spoken conversation that builds the case with the mind: what “not two” really means, what science is discovering about meditation and the mind, where modern physics and this old idea genuinely overlap, and what happens when language reaches its limit. It closes with time spent quietly under the open sky.

The afternoon is feeling it. Led by the body and the hands rather than by argument: making something together (drawing, sound or movement, no skill required), a practice for listening to the body, a guided exercise in compassion or truly listening to another person, a conversation with someone who has brought this way of seeing into their work — and a close in small circles.

You can see the full timetable on the one-day programme.

How much of it is talking, and how much is doing?

Roughly half and half, and the order matters: the argument comes first so that the practice has something to land on.

Every idea is followed by an experience of it — the neuroscience-of-flow talk is followed by guided making, not by a Q&A. There are also 45–60 minute blocks of stillness, movement and practice, and silent time built in deliberately rather than treated as the leftover gaps between sessions.

Will I have to speak, share something personal, or be touched?

No. There is no confessional element, and nothing personal will be asked of you in front of the room.

You can opt out of any session. The pair exercises are guided and voluntary, and the small circles on day two ask only for one thing you might try in your own life over the coming month — you can say as little as you like.

How much silence is there? I've never meditated.

Less than you might fear. On day one there is one guided silent sit of about 45 minutes, followed by tea taken quietly together — no teaching, no debrief — and an evening outdoors without facilitation.

You do not need to have meditated before. The sits are guided, and sitting on a chair is fine. If a block of silence is not working for you, stepping out quietly is acceptable.

Do I have to stay for the whole day?

Yes — it is a single day, designed as one movement, and everyone attends it together. There are no parallel sessions to choose between, so the whole group shares the same experience to talk about afterwards.

The same single-track principle applies to the longer editions — the five days at The Mirage in Andretta, and the five-day form under discussion with Banjara Experiences.

What's the difference between the one-day pilot in Goa and the five days at The Mirage?

The pilot is the concentrated form: argument in the morning, experience in the afternoon, around twenty to twenty-five people in Goa.

The five-day edition at The Mirage in Andretta, Himachal Pradesh, is slower and smaller — twenty guests at a heritage homestay in an artists' village, arranged as Arrive, Understand, Wonder, Make, Love & close. That edition is under discussion with the venue and is subject to confirmation. You can read the five-day working draft.

A third arrangement, with Banjara Experiences, a Himalayan travel company, would run in both forms at one of their retreats. It is at present a verbal understanding only — venue, dates and numbers to be confirmed.

Will it work? What if I feel nothing at all?

That is possible, and we would rather say so than oversell it. Glimpses of this are brief and cannot be guaranteed on demand by anyone.

What the programme can promise is the conditions: a small group, a clear sequence, silence that is protected, and plenty of chances. Nobody will be asked to report a feeling or to perform an insight afterwards.

Can I come on my own?

Yes — most people will. The welcome circle and the small groups are designed so that arriving alone is a normal way to arrive, not a disadvantage.

03 · Practicalities

Dates, numbers, cost, and what to bring

Where something is still open, it is marked as such rather than dressed up.

Where and when is it?

A pilot edition is planned as a single day in Goa, in November 2026 — exact dates to be confirmed.

The five-day edition is planned for The Mirage, Andretta, in the Kangra Valley of Himachal Pradesh, and is still under discussion with the venue — dates to be confirmed.

A third arrangement, with Banjara Experiences in the Himalaya, would carry both a one-day and a five-day edition. Nothing is signed yet — venue, dates and numbers to be confirmed.

How many people will be there?

The Goa pilot is a small group — currently planned at around twenty to twenty-five people — so that conversations stay personal and the small groups at the close of the day feel genuinely intimate. The small circles are eight to ten people.

The Andretta edition is twenty, matching a full buyout of the property.

Numbers for the Banjara arrangement are not settled, and will depend on which of their retreats it runs at.

What does it cost?

To be announced — the contribution will be published with the confirmed dates, along with what it includes.

A limited number of subsidised places will be available for students and practitioners. Nothing is charged now: registering your interest costs nothing and commits you to nothing.

Where would I stay, and how do I get there?

For the Goa pilot, suggested accommodation close to the venue and airport transfers will be published with the dates.

For Andretta, accommodation is part of the edition itself — ten double bedrooms across the property's three cottages. The nearest airport is Dharamshala (Gaggal), about 1.5 hours by taxi, and the nearest fast train is Amb Andaura (the Vande Bharat from Delhi or Chandigarh), about 3 hours onward by taxi. A shared group transfer is worth arranging at those distances.

What should I bring or wear?

Comfortable clothes you can sit and move in, and a cushion or shawl if you like your own. For Andretta, bring layers and shoes you can walk a hill path in.

Beyond that: nothing except a willingness to stay with a question a little longer than feels natural, rather than rushing to resolve it.

What language is it in, and will I understand the terminology?

English, with Sanskrit and Hindi terms used freely and explained as they come up. No prior familiarity with any of the vocabulary is assumed.

I have dietary needs, or a medical or accessibility requirement. Can that be handled?

Menus and dietary needs can be passed to the venue in advance; at Andretta, meals are home-cooked, vegetarian and served family-style, with a traditional Himachali dhaam meal available on request.

On accessibility we would rather be precise than reassuring: the Goa venue is not yet fixed, and the Andretta cottages are restored traditional Himachali buildings. Tell us what you need when you register, and you will get a straight answer about that specific property rather than a general promise.

What is the cancellation policy?

To be published once dates are confirmed — along with the contribution. Nothing is being collected or committed at this stage.

04 · Afterwards

What happens when it ends

Deliberately short — this programme does not end on a conclusion, and it does not chase you afterwards.

How does it end?

Quietly, and without a final speech. Day two closes in small groups of eight to ten, where each person names one specific place in their own life — a relationship, a decision, a piece of land — where they will act over the coming month as if the separation were less total than it appears. Then music, or silence.

There is deliberately no closing keynote, because this is not something meant to be neatly concluded.

Where does Ekatva go from here?

Ekatva is intended as a platform for consciousness studies rather than a single event: programmes and collaborations that bring experts from different disciplines into the same room as people who have real decisions to make.

Three arrangements are being developed: the one-day pilot in Goa, the five days at The Mirage in Andretta, and — still only a verbal understanding — a one-day and a five-day edition with Banjara Experiences in the Himalaya.

Will it be photographed or recorded?

To be confirmed. Our intention is that the contemplative parts of the programme stay unrecorded, and that anyone who does not want to appear in photographs can say so at registration. A clear policy will be published before the first edition.

I still have a question. Where do I ask it?

Register your interest with your question in the message box, and we will answer it directly. There is also a fuller account of the thinking behind the gathering on the Ekatva overview and the four doors.

Curious enough to come and test it?

Register your interest and you will hear first when the dates, venue, faculty and contribution are announced — for any edition. No payment, no obligation, and no need to have decided anything yet.